Her Service Dog Arrival Sparks Unexpected Rage Over Its Gender Choice

Becca, a veteran with PTSD from military sexual trauma, was on the VA's service dog waiting list for nineteen months. Despite her request for a female dog due to her discomfort around males, she was offered a male German Shepherd named Atticus for unique reasons.

The Unexpected Match

Rosa, the VA's service dog coordinator, contacted Becca about Atticus, suggesting she review his file before deciding. Initially hesitant because Atticus was male, Becca eventually read the file which explained the dog's fear of men due to past abuse.

Both Becca and Atticus had experienced trauma from male figures and shared similar fears. This connection led to their recommended pairing aimed at mutual rehabilitation.

Building Trust

Atticus arrived at Becca's home in March. Initially wary of each other, they gradually built trust over six months. By month three, Atticus was comfortable enough to sleep beside Becca in bed.

Over time, Becca started saying male names again, beginning with Atticus’s. She realized that he was the first safe male presence she'd known in years.

Steps Forward

By August, Becca had ventured out with Atticus without anxiety overwhelming her. Together, they managed simple tasks like shopping — something she'd avoided for four years.

Their outings grew more frequent as Becca felt secure with Atticus by her side. They became a team, tackling fears together.

In addition to personal progress, Becca initiated a peer support group for women veterans with MST-related PTSD and their service dogs. The group underscores the healing power these partnerships can create.

Reflecting on the journey with Atticus has reinforced important realizations for Becca: both she and Atticus are not dangerous; they were just afraid — but now they are healing together.